Riley Migl: well to be frank with you sarah that"s of the commonest ways of cheating. do a little detective word cause u might just find out
Coleen Carignan: Definitely trying to test the cheating waters...
Delmy Varano: It's very hard to always have to consider someone else. Especially when that person never really considers you.
Rachell Meese: too expensive...in sixties we had two families on our street who each had 6 kids but that is not so common now.
Frederic Engellant: Why do you think nowadays that more marriages isn't lasting?
Elinore Schlinker: CostIt plays havoc with a woman's body. That's up to 36 years of looking after kids in diapers.
Lashawn Zabarkes: Marriage is so difficult because people have trouble putting anyone else's needs before their own.In a word, selfishness.My wife and I live the fairy tale....Show more
Marya Fehn: 1. Men and women think differently.2. Anytime you are living with someone, it is going to! be give and take and sometimes one can't give as much.3. Sometimes we go into marriage thinking that things are going to be great and then get a kick in the butt - find out it's not a fairytail world.4. I think men and women should go through counseling prior to marriage so that the IMPORTANT ISSUES - money, children, IN-LAWS, etc. are discussed prior because when there is conflict, these issues can be very serious....Show more
Joellen Zorrilla: Marriage is a journey. In that journey, there are good days, bad days, good moments, etc. It's keeping it on the journey; not getting off course, that makes it all worthwhile.
Berry Gilmore: i think marriage is difficult because of the society we live in today. Everything has changed & i don't think men respect women like they used to and expect too much. also women are more independent and we don't need a man to support us so it's easier for us to not put up with the cheating, lies etc. Also i don't think that people a! re getting to know each other long enough before actually gett! ing married and yes-thinking it's going to be a fairy tale ending.
Wilfredo Muldoon: Marriage is difficult on so many different levels there is just not enough time or space here to address each and every one. But some people go into marriage with the wrong ideas and perceptions of what it really is. That puts them behind right from the very start. The best advice I ever got before I got married is to look at my future spouse's parents and family. See how they handle disagreements, as well as good times and how they handle their children. That will tell you a lot about what to expect from your intended. Because we all know children learn what they live, right? Secondly, marriage is life. Nothing in life is easy. And if people enter into a marriage thinking everything is just going to be rosy they are soon sadly mistaken. After the wedding celebration, honeymoon, gift's and all. suddenly, it's just the two of you and here is the sobering reality, not until you are a ce! rtain age or you've been married a certain amount of years but forever. Sure there are good times a lot, Actually more than most people would admit. But somehow the tough times seem to dwell in their memories and they let them pile up and that helps make it more difficult to get along. Marriage is actually sacrifice and selling yourself out for the other person and your marriage. But if both parties are not willing to committ equally, then it fails. The best marriages you will see are those that have weathered the storms and in the long run actually look back with fondness and pride at what they accomplished together. It also makes ones love and appriciation for the other deepen beyond belief. That, that is the fairy tale. In every fairy tale, the heros have had to overcome seemingly unsurmountable obsticals before their happy ever after. The same holds true in real life....Show more
Janean Guz: if you have to ask, then have no children
Lashawn Zabarkes: Is he a! cheating husband?
Christopher Calcano: The marriage you see on t! v is. Marriage is a constant trial of compromise, patience, self-control, and giving up things that are not really as important as you thought. I find that as long as our base values are the same (spirituality, views on children, views on people), then we are just fine. You married them for a reason, remember what it was, go tell them that you are upset, and find a solution. Most of the time the fights and arguments are from women bottling things up and then blowing up over something stupid....Show more
Shaquita Wernicki: No fault divorce laws.It is too easy to get out. No Fault Divorce says that you don't need a reason. "Irreconcilable Difference" is sufficient.And there is no need to prove the differences are irreconcilable. There is no requirement of couple counseling or physical or emotional treatment. If You say isn't reconcilable, then it isn't.This implies that, while marriage requires an agreement between two adults, divorce requires only ONE of the partners.! Most courts will not require counseling or mental health treatment of the plaintiff even in the defendant contends the divorce.Both marriage laws and divorce laws need to be made tougher. Pre-maritial counseling needs to be mandatory for ALL engaged couples, and separation counseling needs to be mandatory for all divorcing couples. This would both reduced the number of bad marriages, and reduce the number of hasty divorces....Show more
Sherita Gallati: Because people don't love each other like they should and there is no trust at all
Janita Tetlow: Truth is most people fail at marriage. Success in marriage is like success in any arena of life, rather difficult and demanding. Being a full time marriage and family therapist in private practice, has lead me to conclude that no more than 10% of marriages are really successful. Success in marriage is where both parties report that their marriage is challenging but very rewarding. Good marriages balance the needs o! f the individuals without sacrificing the harmony of the couple. Truth ! is that may be as complicated as balancing on parallel bars, or running a successful marathon.Human’s gravitate to groups and seek companionship. These needs are well served by marriage. However, creating harmony with another is complicated unless one member of the couple is totally dominant, and the other completely submissive. True marital harmony is a goal most profess to want; yet few attain. The compromises required for two strong people to be both individuals and a couple is an art form that only the few master. Just like the Olympics, the true masters make the sport look easy, when in truth they have practiced and practiced for years to gain success in just one small arena of life.Good luck....Show more
Derrick Kloke: Because unless one can afford a team of nannies it's nearly impossible for two people to raise that many with any sense of security or bonding. Also at 250K per child to the age of 18 that's a multi-million dollar investment few could manage. An! d that doesn't include college.
Chris Wilczewski: marrige is not a fairy tale if u find the right guy or girl u can make ur own fairy tale trust me my mom and dad have done it for 20 years and there mad in love creapy when they kiss infront of me but they love each ther find the right person ur fairy tale will come
Coleman Ocegueda: How on earth would any two adults have enough quality time for twelve kids? That's a home daycare, not a family.I wouldn't have time or energy for twelve cats let alone twelve kids.
Jonie Lauria: Stu is right, it is selfishness.Also, some are not comfortable with emotional & physical intimacy and that leaves the marriage too empty and lacking.
Sheree Hipwell: It is hard to hear now a day that marriage lasting longs a year . Where ever you go we find out that marriage problem is main problems in life whether it is loving marriage or arrange marriage . Some man or some women have mentality to hide things their partners w! ithout any reason . And the problem begins with here and its continued ! in its way and then finally the day came when partners find out that their husband or wife cheated on them and all story is over . Even I heard a girl's story that she gave permission to her husband to do all things but at the end she found that her husband cheated on her only because of her husband has bad habit to hide things from her and the problem arise and the marriage last only for one year and they break up their marriage though still boys and girls both love each other deeply . So , First of all it is a common question now a day that how long time you together with your partners ! Amazing !!! ! extraordinary question . But from my point of view try best to success your marriage life . One life one marriage just remembered it . You can go and grab the opportunity to success your marriage life . Wishing all the best for your future life. !!!!! !...Show more
Felicitas Phildor: Because people are more concerned with what the GET rather than what they GIVE......
Carmelina Enoch: Are you married Smitty?I've been married for 4 years. It has its ups and downs, but I made certain to marry the man who was and is my best friend. We can get on by talking, not talking, doing things together, doing things apart, we have separate lives but lives together ... of course we fight sometimes but without problems to solve you cannot grow, right? My parents have been married for 29 or 30 years now - they have a difficult marriage because my mother depends on my father too much.My grandparents have been married 40 or something years - they are best friends.Every marriage has its struggles and difficulties - it is important to stay honest at all times and work together to make things go well.EDIT: everyone else on here who has answered above me makes extremely good points!Marriage IS difficult because you do need to put someone else ahead of you and that is soooo hard to do!!...Show more
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Tana Dumoulin: Its extra dif! ficult when people think its supposed to be a fairy tale.Marriage is a ! real thing and requires work and maturity from both parties.
Raymundo Kyser: Who says it isn't a good idea? If the parents can manage, why shouldn't they have as many kids as they like?
Clemmie Burkleo: How to make friends in maplestory?
Lu Tiner: because no two people are the same so you have to be able to relate to how the other person feels
Christopher Calcano: People marry for the wrong reasons. Look at some of the questions on here. Yesterday I read one that this girl has been with her cheating bf for years and is wondering about getting married! Many women marry for money, not to be alone, they settle cause they don't think that anyone better will come along, to get out of their parents house, to be "taken care of", or to get something else they think will make them feel better. She may marry a guy because she has kids and is looking for a guy who will take care of them and she won't have to work...Men marry b*tches because they want what ! they can't have & feel she's unattainable. They want kids to carry on the name, she makes more money, she's "hot" and wants somebody to show off for his own ego. They've been dating for years and he thinks "She must be who I'm suppose to marry." Lust. She cooks, takes care of him....etc. There are a bazillion reasons, many not helping the marriage.I've even known couples who dated for 4-6 years and within one year of marriage were divorced. I don't think they took marriage seriously. Most people think, oh well, if it doesn't work, we can always get a divorce. They have the wrong attitude before they even start.Instead of working on the marriage, most would rather just quit. There are lots of spoiled brats out there who got whatever they wanted from mommy and daddy and now demand the same in their marriage. It just doesn't work.Besides, you have to LIKE who you marry. Some think they are in love, but don't like how their bf/gf treat their family. He's mean, "but ! he's so sweet to me." They lie, cheat (I really don't get why they han! g on to these!) steal, etc. Once the lust part has worn off, you're stuck with a person you wouldn't normally want to be near.You also have to be able to talk about ANYTHING! I had a former spouse I couldn't talk to about sex. That was extremely hard. If you can't talk about how you feel on a daily basis, how can you communicate when there's a problem?...Show more
Barrett Alosa: Kids are expensive
Verena Koop: Because people are taught that making a marriage last takes REAL WORK. Instead, they give up when things get difficult....no thanks to the baby boomers.
Dick Ovdenk: I think it can be difficult based on your expectations. People are who they are and you have to accept them for that. If you are trying to change your partner, I think you are making a mistake. You can not make anyone change, that would be up to them. If you went in to marriage thinking it would be any different, you will be in for quite a surprise. Marriage is hard work, consi! deration, and compromise. You have to work on it. It is not a fairy tale you were raised to believe.On the other hand it can be great fun and laughter. To me that is the key to a great marriage....Show more
Weldon Totaro: When you're single, you only have to worry about yourself and take care of those things that you need. When you're married, there is another person to worry and care about. Marriage is a work in progress, meaning that you have to get use to being together all of the time and concerned about each other. Honestly speaking if you are married for more that 5 years, things do get easier but you can not take each other for granted. Good Luck
Clementina Collelo: Marriage is definitely not a fairy tale. However, lots of people (especially young females) have been raised with the "happily ever after" expectations and have never been told what to do to get there. For those of us (me included) who were raised by dysfunctional parents, we end up g! uessing at what normal and healthy behaviors are in a marriage, so we o! ften fail because of all that mess.Any time two people come together to live together and create a life together, there are going to be difficulties. Both people have wants, needs, feelings, expectations, fears and goals for and about that relationship and for themselves as individuals. When my wants or needs conflict with yours, then we have to engage in problem-solving and compromise.... behaviors a lot of people have never learned. So conflict continues. Too many couples are about "I win, you lose" instead of finding a way that both people can reach their goals with help from each other. Too many young people get married when they are ill-equipped to live life as an individual human being, let alone as part of a couple and then as parents. Fighting, accusing, blaming, cheating, shifting responsibility.... these all result when people are too immature to be part of a couple. Older people who get married are often set in their ways, are focused on what they want and! forget that they now have a partner again.Being married is an agreement that I will consider my spouse's wants, needs, feelings, interests, goals and life as EQUALLY important to mine. If I think mine are more important, or conversely, if I think mine don't matter as much, it's a recipe for disaster. It's a balancing act, and it takes compassion, consideration and enough maturity to understand that you do not have to be my twin to be my partner.Marriages that are full of problems with brief moments of good feelings are usually between two people who don't understand the concept that "I am responsible for my own behaviors, thoughts, feelings and choices." Usually those relationships are between people who hold each other accountable for what the other one does. Life isn't like that. Couples who hold themselves accountable as individuals usually have marriages that are characterized by contentment and happiness with brief periods of conflict, which they work together to! solve....Show more
Hai Biggart: Name something that girls can do! better than guys...?
Samatha Nicar: Marriage is alot of hard work! Nobody ever said it would be easy. All of these difficult times help build a stronger bond as long as your willing to work together and make it work.
Voncile Slaubaugh: WHAT other reason would a spouse even consider anything but cheating of they're conversing with the opposite sex on the Internet?! One who truly loves their husband/wife would even consider thinking of the opposite sex other than the one reason for cheating!!! Beware of anything of that nature...:(
Oren Eskelsen: All marriages are difficultIf anyone say it's easy...it's a lieWhen we get married we are learning and growing with each otherBonding is always hard...but it Takes strong people to realize the love they have for one anotherIs well worth the obstacles....good and bad covers a lotIf your good weighs out the bad work at it...Show more
Charissa Bichsel: The financial cost and the strain on the woman's body are tw! o reasons not to. The need to do this is no longer there; farmers used to do this so they had enough help to run the farm but things have changed.
Jackelyn Archut: having that amount of kids is irresponsible
Jed Mutone: Because people expect to BE IN LOVE rather than LOVEThey don't realize their vows were to "love, honor and cherish" not 'be in love, honor and cherish"They base things on how they feel, rather than how they behave.IN LOVE is a feeling, and feelings evolveLOVE is a behavior....Show more
Garrett Detone: How many would say that talking to women on the internet was the first step of a husband who was thinking about cheating?
Forest Duttinger: It isn't if you learn to compromise and communicate with each other. And have a marriage based on truth and trust.
Edwina Fu: Baby boy???
Felipa Nosis: The number one reason for divorce is dispute over finances. People fight because they are stressed, and trying to make ends meet, whi! ch makes them unhappy. They in turn try to find happiness outside of t! he home which for some leads to cheating, alcohol, and drugs. If you gave the couple going through financial problems access to an endless amount of money, they would be the happiest people that you were to ever meet, and their love would be sure to stand the test of time. With the economy the way that it is, we are sure to see more divorces pretty soon....Show more
Rosalva Steinmann: Baji ji, i'm very sorry to hearken to your marriage situation. the main marriage are like that on and rancid. i'm married for a million 3 hundred and sixty 5 days and four months hamdullallah so we constantly went like on and rancid as I mean as quickly as we argument and different time we making a love. he's likewise my cousin. i do no longer comprehend what up on your husband. i'm specific there could be some thing reason that he do no longer communicate with you. I additionally comprehend that your husband would not love you in that way. attempt to take a seat with him and speaking ! with him very nicer way and ask him what difficulty situation he have. Ask him a query as lots you are able to. which you think of it substantial you to ask. pay attention, it must be somebody have placed the black magic on your husband because it take place load people have a situation over the moneys, the marriage, the homestead, the relationship, can no longer have a toddler and and so on. you should confirm approximately it if he have or no longer. Inshallah Allah (SWT) would be restoration your marriage paintings and supply lots love between you and your husband, Ameen, Baji......Show more
Frances Macky: Marriage is not difficult when the right people are married and have their priorities in the right place. It gets difficult when you put money, your own desires, or treat the other in a way that is disrespectful. Marriage isn't a fairy-tale...far from it, actually. When marriage is based on reality, it isn't as glamorous, but it will be solid and last. The 50% of! marriages that end in divorce are the ones who thought it was supposed! to be the fairy tale. The other 50% that make it are the ones that realize marriage is real, so you gotta keep it real....Show more
Jeremy Donohue: I'd say it's a step in the wrong direction.
Dominic Sciancalepore: Of course.
Luana Carothers: It is selfish to do to children who may get lost in the shuffle, needs going unmet as they are required to parent each other instead of pursue preparatory skill building for their futures. And stressed parents can become abusive or withdrawn and miss signs a child (falling through cracks) may be struggling in some areas.
Roni Kurz: How could you think it was a fairy tale if you just got through saying it was so difficult?In any case, it really isn't for a lot of people. What are you doing to make it so difficult?
Maritza Ebanks: Agh! Friend help please? ):?
Rosann Mccomb: Because marriage can be hard work!! In the beginning of a marriage, everything is new and fun and fresh and interesting. After ! a few years, or for some people a few months, people realize that the honeymoon is over. You have to work on it, continue to work on it, and work on it some more!! People don't want to work too hard so the marriage doesn't last.